Frequently Asked Questions for Rabbi Tobi

I'm based on the South Shore of Long Island in Nassau County.  I typically work on Long Island but will also go into Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan and into Sullivan County in the Catskills.

I go where you need me to.  This is an emotional time for your family, so I will do what I can to help you through it.  I officiate at Chapel and Graveside ceremonies.

I can; people have weddings in all sorts of places that are meaningful to them.  Pop me a note if you are interested and we can talk.

Yes.

I have affiliations with two historic synagogues where we can hold your ceremony.  One is in midtown Manhattan and the other is a lovely small congregation in the Catskills.  At both we can arrange a traditional synagogue ceremony, which can be super-meaningful for your family, especially the Grandparents.

There is work involved.  Just because your child is not enrolled in a traditional religious school setting doesn't mean they get off without study - sorry kids :).  My goal is to provide a meaningful Jewish experience and not just something they do before the party.  Please contact me so we can talk about it.

Yes.  I have always focused on Special Needs in the Jewish context, and have taught many seminars on this topic.  Please contact me so we can discuss your particular situation.

Yes.  I can perform a warm and meaningful Bris ceremony in the comfort of your home or location of your choosing.

Yes, there is!  It is called a Bat Brit, where we will hold a naming ceremony for your daughter and welcome her to the Jewish people.

Absolutely!  Let's talk about how we can create a beautiful ceremony that includes and honors the traditions of your blended family.

Very much so.  I earned my MARE (Master of Arts in Religious Education) from Hebrew Union College - Jewish Institute of Religion in New York City in 2001, having already worked in Jewish Education since 1988.  I then went on to be awarded the accreditations RJE (Reform Jewish Educator) and CJE (Conservative Jewish Educator).  I received Semicha (ordination) from Rabbinical Seminary International in New York, have worked in various capacities in Reform, Conservative, and non-denominational congregations, and am currently a CPE Chaplain at Mount Sinai South Nassau Hospital.